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**Drafts: Summary (up
to being burned) and an Outline (age
8 through 9th grade)** 
Unedited Random Thoughts From My Personal Diary--
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Recently I was having dinner at a Japanese hibachi style restaurant when the waitress came over, abruptly turned the powerful exhaust fan off, and then asked me something I did not understand. She asked again, and this time others at the table said, "she's asking you if you are burned." I couldn't hear anything because I was engrossly concentrated on her asking me something I was not comprehending--it must have been too many inputs. So, once we all agreed, and I was over my terror of having a senior-like-moment, she said her husband had recently been burned when an electrical cable fell on him while working on a power line. Then she was interrupted by these two women at the opposite end of the hibachi grill that expressed with surprise that I was burned. They both said, nearly at the same time, “you look normal.” Then came the I see you are burned now comment. I asked the waitress if she ever sees any burned people, and she said she couldn’t remember ever seeing any. |
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Thank you to those that have written thanking me for the site -- it is quite rewarding for me.
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I'm in the process of redesigning the web site; again, any suggestions are welcome. Also, the Resources Page was updated with some info about burn survivor Robert Timberg, the author/biographer of several books on the Vietnam War and John McCain, and another burn survivor is the author of The Glass Castle, Jeanette Walls (blog interview about her book).
For anyone that visits this site regularly, I've finally realized that I'm not going to make any progress continuing to dicker with updates that add no real value. This project is about being burned, and it is about me, and my accomplishments, and as delusional as this sounds, I’m not burned--that’s not who I am. Sure there are photos that show scars and ill fitting clothes (the daily struggle of uncomfortable clothing), but other than that you’d be hard pressed to find testimonials from my friends, co-workers, and family that would think to mention, “oh yeah, the burned guy.” Now, I'm sure they would say something like, “he needs to lose a little weight,” or “he talks a lot, but he does listen.” So, this site is best just a simple and perhaps cursory view of me than something in-depth.
Here’s the beginning words of my forthcoming book:
 He died. It was a crisp chilly Thanksgiving morning in north Florida on Lake Geneva in a blazing cabin fire that took his identity. The ten year boy reading Green Lantern comics the night before was gone.
His life had been pretty amazing, and perhaps it was appropriate that it ended eloquently in a cabin, his life exploding into fire from the ignition of gasoline vapor from a one gallon fuel can, which a moment before appeared picture perfect in his hands, very much like one of those old glossy magazine ads for Coleman camping gear, and the next moment a crumbled piping hot charred wreck of metal that a bored hitchhiker wouldn’t bother to kick if found on the roadside.
That, perhaps, may be the total extent to which I mention being burned. I’m still working on the format.
The timing of this site's debut marks the 30th anniversary of being burned by a gasoline can explosion in a cabin on Lake Geneva, Florida on a very cold Thanksgiving morning in 1976. I was burned over fifty percent of my body, including my face, and was treated at Shands Hospital in Gainesville, and then at the Shriners in Boston. I was ten years old at the time of the accident.
During the last thirty years, I've lived a rather exciting and mundane life,
and that is what this site is about--it's About Being Normal.
 Here are pictures [1970s, 1980s, 1990s, 2000s]
in chronological order depicting my appearance over the years. However, here
are photographs I have taken
of things I've found interesting over the years.
Here's a short list of some facts about me:
- I love tennis; surfing, and working outdoors; Did I mention tennis?
- My father was working in the ER I was taken after I was burned;
- I earned both a master's degree and a juris doctorate degree;
- I created the first USO Internet web site (uso.org);
- My mother died from a brain tumor (brain cancer) two years before I was burned;
- After being burned the first hurdle I conquered was taking fresh baked chocolate cookies out of the oven;
- I really could live my entire life wearing nothing but shorts;
- I would like to think I'm creative, but this site clearly reflects otherwise;
- I'm 1/32nd Creek Indian (Florida);
- I once had an engaging conversation with Barbara Bach;
- I'm an avid writer, but I have nothing to say...
Shriners
Burns Hospital, Boston
Unit
Shands
at the University of Florida, Gainesville, FL
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Copyright © 2006-2009 Christopher Fitts. All rights reserved. (I could place disclaimers all over this site about all the burn survivors who are or were much worse off than I, so please keep in mind I’m not callous to the range of damage burns inflict on a person, and if I let my empathy for others overwhelm I’d never be able to create this site.)
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